This Is No Way to Talk About Children
When people say they “don’t like” kids, they’re expressing way more than a preference.
Stephanie H. Murray
Stephanie H. Murray is a contributing writer at The Atlantic. She’s a former public-policy researcher, and lives in Bristol, U.K.
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